About six years ago, I did time for doing my Xanga stalking at inappropriate hours.

Let the record show that, even today, www.xanga.com is not a "chat site."

I can't hold myself back just because I want others to be happy.

I have to allow myself happiness, even if I know others are sad.  I am allowed to be happy, even if the people around me are unhappy.

I have to remember that.